So cold

errgghhh

how do tell someone that is so close to you that some things that they do is not right? don't get me wrong i have no problem in telling them but its their reply that makes me sad. what do you do when they know what they did is wrong still they do it and on top of it they refuse to listen to you even when they know you're right.
I keep asking myself why , so many why thousands of it. But God doesnt want you to ask why, to ask what if that, what if this. what happens happened. Have I failed myself? In a way I have.

How do I change someone who doesnt want to change for the good, who refused to change despite knowing that changing certain things will make them a better person. Do you just leave them to rot? I can't do that. I need to keep trying. But somehow I think I have failed. Or maybe I did not try hard enough?